Table manners
| 02 Apr 2024 | 01:40
![Table manners The blue jay.](http://www.dirt-mag.com/binrepository/555x432/0c0/0d0/none/1994965/SCDC/img-9861_4-7396298_20240221133406.jpg)
The blue jay. (
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![Table manners White breasted nuthatch. Smaller birds come and go at will, but only one of the larger birds occupies the feeder at a time.](http://www.dirt-mag.com/binrepository/589x432/0c0/0d0/none/1994965/YHDD/img-9928_4-7396310_20240221133514.jpg)
White breasted nuthatch. Smaller birds come and go at will, but only one of the larger birds occupies the feeder at a time. (
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![Table manners The red bellied woodpecker appears to take precedence.](http://www.dirt-mag.com/binrepository/307x432/0c0/0d0/none/1994965/VODD/img-1715_4-7396300_20240221133409.jpg)
The red bellied woodpecker appears to take precedence. (
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![Table manners The cardinal always defers to the blue jay and the blue jay to the woodpecker.](http://www.dirt-mag.com/binrepository/317x432/0c0/0d0/none/1994965/UEEU/img-5128-1_4-7396301_20240221133409.jpg)
The cardinal always defers to the blue jay and the blue jay to the woodpecker. (
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Outside my office window there’s an old mulberry tree with a bird feeder. The larger birds that regularly partake are a cardinal, a blue jay, and a woodpecker. Among these three there appears to be an unspoken dining etiquette. Smaller birds come and go at will, but only one of the larger birds can occupy the feeder at a time. The cardinal always defers to the blue jay and the blue jay to the woodpecker. They end up taking turns and each gets a piece of the pie.